Archive for the ‘Creativity’ Category
Another Great Vision Board Workshop Complete
Thanks to all the wonderful participants at last weeks Vision Board Day and what a fantastic Day. I do love these workshops. Everybody falls effortlessly into clearing and creating! See below testimonials and also a couple of Pics of visions created.
Really enjoyed the self discovery – giving ourselves permission and the wonderful pairing up. Deb you are extremely generous with what you give to all participants – it is much appreciated. Silvana.
I really liked the meditation, getting in touch with my inner strength and thoughts and the relaxing environment. Thank you for having me! I loved it. Megan.
Loved the company, the engaging program, its focus and clarity, the ease and the atmosphere and your leadership. Rita.
I enjoyed the preparation and becoming clear before confirming the vision. Searching for the words and graphics to support the vision and activating the board creation was great fun, very creative and I loved establishing connections with the others. Frances
The location is so beautiful and I loved the music. I enjoyed the guided meditation and the process work to release emotional blocks and healing achieved. Enjoyed meeting the other women and the shared experience. It was a good balance of emotional clearing and healing, which allowed my creative process to flow easily. It was very good value for money and great fun. Rosemarie.
Relaxing, Confronting to improve myself on an emotional level. Really enjoyed the meditation session. Thank you. Michelle.
Drumming Workshops – Drumming is Good Medicine
My wonderful and talented friend Marie is putting on 2 wonderful workshops, both at The Sanctuary, Riverdell Spiritual Centre, 51 Clifford Road, Hillier Here are the details:-
SOUND ELIXIR – Feb 18th 2012
2:00pm – Sacred Sound Meditation
Come, sink into sacred sound! This is a non-verbal meditation, a perfect way to relax and unwind to the sounds of bells, chimes, bowls and much more.
Chairs available but feel free to bring a yoga mat.
followed by:-
FEELGOOD DRUMMING CIRCLE
3:30pm- Feb 18th
Come and experience a drumming circle, no experience or rhythm required, you will be amazed by both the fun and healing to be had. Some instruments will be available, but please bring along any drums or percussion that you may have.
Exchange is $15 per session or attend both for $25
Bookings are essential – further info contact thedrummingtree@live.com.au or phone Marie after business hours on 0417827827 or Deborah 0466831709
CHAKRA DRUMMING CLASS
The Base Chakra
Friday March 2nd 7:00pm – 9:00pm
In collaboration with an American Harmony Centre, Marie will be teaching the drum rhythms which resonate with the specific chakra frequency.
This is the 1st of 7 chakra classes. Come along for a fun, upbeat way to access and ‘charge up’ each of our energy centres.
No prior drumming experience necessary. Exchange $15 and please wear something RED for this class.
Bookings are essential – further info contact thedrummingtree@live.com.au or phone Marie after business hours on 0417827827 or Deborah 0466831709
DRUMMING IS GOOD MEDICINE!
Awakening Your Passionate Creative Heart – Art Workshop
Come Paint with Me!
- Awaken your Inner Artist
- Paint your own painting
- Surprise yourself
- Have Fun
- Get access to your own creativity & unlimited potential.
This fun workshop opens your senses and unleashes your creative spirit. A day of exploration, movement and creating! No experience necessary.
Saturday 24th March 2012 from 9:30am – 6:30pm
Cost $150 (pens rates and early bird available) Karrawirra, Riverdell Spiritual Centre, 8 Clifford Road, Hillier.
You will need to bring a 60×60cm canvas – old clothes/shirt to paint in, newspaper, an empty decorative plate or platter, open heart, and willingness to have FUN!!!! Lunch will be supplied by all, the ingredients you are requested to bring. ( I will let you know beforehand and please let me know if you have any special requirements or food allergies)
I only have the chance to offer this workshop once or twice a year. It is very special to my heart and if you think your not creative or “cant” then please consider coming. I always thought I was not creative too, until I had the opportunity to let it loose! You can let your imagination and creativity loose too, its much easier than you think.
Ring 0466831709 to book or for any questions! see below what others have said.
” I LOVED LOVED LOOOOVED every aspect of the workshop…”
Deb I had the most amazing day, an experience I will hold close to my heart forever. My painting was adored by all close to me and I gave it to my Mum to hang in her home. My sis and her fiancé loved it that much that they want to buy me a massive canvas and paint something for their house.
I LOVED LOVED LOOOOVED every aspect of the workshop, the dancing, the singing, the food, the little thought provoking games with our senses, the nature walk, the place it was held and most importantly your facilitation =)
I had recently stressed a close friend out to the point that I pushed her away because she was very exhausted by my negativity. She moved to Sydney and said she needed space and I hadn’t heard from her since. This broke me and I went down hill for a few months until I holidayed in Bora Bora and found myself again. At the workshop when we did our Chakra meditation and were in our heart space you said to think about all your loved ones, I did then I thought about all the people who have come in and out of my life who have helped me grow to be the person I am today, the person I love and then I thanked them. The friend I mentioned earlier was the last person I thought about, sent loving energy to her then sent those thanks. I returned home that night and before I went out for tapas and bevies checked my facebook, I had received an inbox from her saying for some reason today she felt the need to thank me for helping her grow as a person and that she is ready to slowly start letting me back into her life. WOW, I don’t believe in coincidences and feel that the loving energy I sent her when meditating at the workshop had something to do with the reconnection. Again an amazing day and I would like you to keep in touch with me regarding all your workshops and meditations. Thank you very much Deb xx
“I would like to express how uplifting and fun the day was!”
I attended Passionate Creative Art Day workshop with Deb on a Saturday. I would like to express how uplifting and fun the day was. The day was made up of different activities which were challenging and exciting. Creating lots of new experiences for someone like me who has a busy home and work life. I recommend a day with Deb to appreciate what is around us. To stop think, dream and find the artist within.
Wendy.
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“I really enjoyed the day, not only was it fun, it was also very helpful and insightful.”
I recently attended a one day workshop with Deb – it was about Creativity, and how to discover it within oneself. I really enjoyed the day, not only was it fun, it was also very helpful and insightful. Deb helped us to stimulate senses other than sight, and encouraged us to relax and just let ourselves have fun. Creativity flows so much more easily when one is relaxed and laughing…I even managed an oil painting that I would never have attempted before that day! Deb was very professional in her approach, setting the scene exquisitely and leading us through several well thought out exercises. Deb was at all times, fun, supportive, encouraging and creative herself.
“Deb lives her spiritual practice and teaches others to do similarly”
I also attend Deb’s meditation evenings on an on-going basis, and I greatly look forward to them. Deb is insightful and very aware spiritually – she leads the group with skill and compassion, encouraging us all to go within to find our own inner wisdom. She is also there with her own brand of wisdom to assist with explanations and/or spiritual guidance when or if it is needed. Not only is Deb is very skilled at what she does, she also lives her spiritual practice and teaches others to do similarly – that is, to live in the Universal Light of Love.
Lin P.
Please ring Deborah 0466831709 to book
Co-Creating your Life – Vision Board Workshop
Have fun, create, get motivated, gain clarity and inspiration……….
This day filled with AHHA moments will help you to get clear and dissolve any blocks and negative beliefs that stand in the way of your ideal life.
You will Create a visionary picture of your desires
Learn how to manifest your ideal life
Get Clear and Motivated.
A wonderful day of creating and fun
We start at 9:30am – 4:30pm Saturday 25th February 2012.
In Karrawirra at Riverdell Spiritual Centre, 8 Clifford Road, Hillier (5 mins from Gawler)
You will need to bring a plate of lunch to share, and your own scissors. Cost is $40pp
Please ring Deborah 0466831709 to register. Numbers are limited and this fills really fast so be quick.
See what others have said………….
I feel that I have gained a lot of insights into myself whilst participating in the workshop. The introspection aspect certainly gave me all “Ah ha” moments and some personal clarity. The choosing of the content for the collage was interesting and challenging. I was happy with the end result and am focusing on manifesting the outcomes that were highlighted for me. Lin.
I had a fabulous day at the vision Board workshop with Deb. She helped me gain clarity and focus and create a vision Board true to me. I wish we had longer!
I really enjoyed my first ever workshop. I learned alot and went to places I didnt expect. I found you a warm fun person and felt very at ease. Thank you for a fun day. I feel very inspired. Belinda
It has been a wonderful experience sharing this day, meditating, learning and experiencing also celebrating the creative process….. Vision Boarding. Thanks Deborah.
Thought it was fantastic. Loved the Vision Board, the meditation was good. The pair offs made me uncomfortable but I think it was because I didnt know the people enough. It actually told me something I had no idea about myself. Hugs and thanks xx
Thankyou so much for a great experience. I was already excited about my goals and dreams and it was wonderful to put them in picture form and to visualise them. Your guidance helped me identify some of the blocks in my life that have held me back in the past and where they came from which will be freeing in the future. I love your energy, sense of fun and loving nature. Love Tanya.
I found the meditation exercises very beneficial in grounding my energy and a launch pad for expressing my goals through the collage. Richard.
Today I encountered deep emotions from memories that I had forgotten about and realised where my insecurities and disbelief came from. During meditation and a couple of activitites, i was able to heal, let go, forgive and give myself permission to trust. I have no doubt from today I will reflect the love and grace all around me so that people can see the presence of God in me. Thank you, forever grateful Lia.
Really enjoyed the friendly nature and atmosphere created. There were no low lights! I would like to leave all my baggage here if I could
) Darren.
I had a wonderful time, healing, releasing and creating. Beautiful Day! Thank YOU. Jewel.
Inspirational, made me rethink my goals and what I want in my life and that I can have it! Laura.
What a great day release the baggage and bring in the new positive power. Love it! Wendy.
I totally had a fantastic day. Learnt so much and I feel brand new! New outlook on life now I thank you so much. Belinda xx
A wonderful day full of fun and laughter and good company. Thank YOu Deb
Bianca
Its wonderful to meet, talk and work with new ‘like minded’ people. Thank you Deb for your energy, expertise, love inspiration and time. Well presented, thought out and flowed well. Rhonda.
I just really enjoyed it. Josie.
Be Quick to register for this insightful, fun filled amazing day. Telephone Deborah 0466831709.
Co-Creating your life…Vision Board Workshop – May 7th
Have fun, create, get motivated, gain clarity and inspiration……….
This day filled with AHHA moments will help you to get clear and dissolve any blocks and negative beliefs that stand in the way of your ideal life.
You will Create a visionary picture of your desires
Learn how to manifest your ideal life
Get Clear and Motivated.
A wonderful day of creating and fun
We start at 9:30am – 4:30pm Saturday 7th May 2011.
In the Dining Room at Riverdell Spiritual Centre, 8 Clifford Road, Hillier (5 mins from Gawler)
You will need to bring a plate of lunch to share, and your own scissors. Cost is $30pp
Please ring Deborah 0466831709 to register. Numbers are limited and this fills really fast so be quick.
See what others have said………….
I feel that I have gained a lot of insights into myself whilst participating in the workshop. The introspection aspect certainly gave me all “Ah ha” moments and some personal clarity. The choosing of the content for the collage was interesting and challenging. I was happy with the end result and am focusing on manifesting the outcomes that were highlighted for me. Lin.
I had a fabulous day at the vision Board workshop with Deb. She helped me gain clarity and focus and create a vision Board true to me. I wish we had longer!
I really enjoyed my first ever workshop. I learned alot and went to places I didnt expect. I found you a warm fun person and felt very at ease. Thank you for a fun day. I feel very inspired. Belinda
It has been a wonderful experience sharing this day, meditating, learning and experiencing also celebrating the creative process….. Vision Boarding. Thanks Deborah.
Thought it was fantastic. Loved the Vision Board, the meditation was good. The pair offs made me uncomfortable but I think it was because I didnt know the people enough. It actually told me something I had no idea about myself. Hugs and thanks xx
Thankyou so much for a great experience. I was already excited about my goals and dreams and it was wonderful to put them in picture form and to visualise them. Your guidance helped me identify some of the blocks in my life that have held me back in the past and where they came from which will be freeing in the future. I love your energy, sense of fun and loving nature. Love Tanya.
I found the meditation exercises very beneficial in grounding my energy and a launch pad for expressing my goals through the collage. Richard.
Today I encountered deep emotions from memories that I had forgotten about and realised where my insecurities and disbelief came from. During meditation and a couple of activitites, i was able to heal, let go, forgive and give myself permission to trust. I have no doubt from today I will reflect the love and grace all around me so that people can see the presence of God in me. Thank you, forever grateful Lia.
Be Quick to register for this insightful, fun filled amazing day. Telephone Deborah 0466831709.
Creative Expression for Healthy Living
Studies have shown the successful use of creativity generates feelings of pleasure and self-esteem that are beneficial to health. In particular, it can help depression, stuckness, moodiness and anger outbursts. Current values do not give adequate importance to creativity and yet the practice of it produces massive health benefits.
Ruth Richards author of Eminent Creativity, Everyday Creativity, and Health, A psychologist who uses creative art therapies to work with at-risk children and their families as well as with traumatized adults found there is a strong case for fostering creativity in children, as well as in their families, in order to develop self-actualized, open-minded citizens who can address societal and global problems in an evolved manner. In practice, promoting a child’s creativity helps develop self-confidence to overcome family and societal obstacles to their growth and strengthens their resiliency. Richards also speaks of the “natural high”—the release of endorphins—that results from a joyous creative experience!
As a child you may have tried out something at school, music, drama, creative writing, painting, drawing and if you were criticised for your results, felt inadequate, believed that you couldn’t do it right, (always going over the lines) or if you were ridiculed or asked to share in front of the class this might have undermined your confidence and you naturally link humiliation or not good enough with creativity, forming beliefs, concepts and self judgement, that limit your potential for creativity now, even though you are an Adult.
You CAN clear these blocks and discover your own unique creativity.
Not all of us are Rembrants, Shakespeares, or Michael Angelo’s but it is the very immersion of ourselves in the creative inspiration that is the true delight. It is the act itself that has the healing power, and the results that can surprise us in unexpected ways.
Creating comes into form in many ways, music, painting, dance, acting, flower arranging, pottery, belly dancing, singing, interior design, writing, story telling, and other ways we don’t necessary think of like cooking, organisation, planning, gardening, sewing, driving, even making the bed.
How many times have you struggled to find an answer or solution to a problem by over thinking it? and when you have gone for a walk, played sport, taken a bath, played music or laughed, the answer has just come like magic! By doing these things we are automatically shifted into the moment, the Now! We have made room for creative inspiration to flow. We let go of mind and move into heart. When we stop thinking our creativity and inspiration naturally comes through.
Letting go of the past, and any self judgement, not having any expectation of perfection or comparative results is the best way to “tap in” to your own creative expression. Giving yourself permission to play and really mess up and just surrender to the moment, so that whatever you are doing is just expressed.
Try writing without full stops, punctuation, or perfect spelling, just write until you stop. Try painting with your eyes closed or with your fingers, or purely on colour. Try picking up whatever takes your eye at the beach or in nature and making an altar, or a picture, or display in the home. Try planting a tree, walking in nature, paddling in the sea, playing with play doe, singing with the kids in the car. Dance like no-ones watching, sing like no-ones listening and laugh for the sake of it.
Our society, plagued by massive addiction problems that destroy families and communities, could surely benefit from a widespread effort to promote creativity, that in turn creates health and wellbeing, and it starts with you.
Awaken Your Passionate Creative Heart – the next Workshop is on 19th March 2011. This is a great workshop to GET CREATIVE! No experience necessary
Call 0466831709.
Awakening Your Creative Passionate Heart Workshop
Come Paint with Me!
- Awaken your Inner Artist
- Paint your own painting
- Surprise yourself
- Have Fun
- Get access to your own creativity & unlimited potential.
This fun workshop opens your senses and unleashes your creative spirit. A day of exploration, movement and creating! No experience necessary.
Saturday 19th March 2011 from 9:30am – 6:30pm
Cost $120 Venue Riverdell Spiritual Centre, 8 Clifford Road, Hillier.
You will need to bring a 60×60cm canvas – old clothes/shirt to paint in, an empty decorative plate or platter, open heart, and willingness to have FUN!!!! Lunch will be supplied by all, the ingredients you are requested to bring. ( I will let you know beforehand and please let me know if you have any special requirements or food allergies)
Check out Testimonials for what others have said about this workshop!
Ring 0466831709 to book
Vision Board
This is my Vision Board for 2011.
Be encouraged to give it a go for your self. First check out the previous post on Vision Forward, then GO FOR IT! Just get yourself a bunch of Magazines and sift through just tearing out all the pictures and words that you like and stand out for you. Then neaten them down and cut around pictures, (just like you did when you were a kid and had to cut out at school), then get yourself some cardboard and glue stick and be Creative, and put it all in place. Lastly Office works will Laminate for about $10. Have Fun! and guess what, THEY REALLY DO WORK!
Patience or Impatience, How do YOU Live?
The meaning of Patience in the dictionary is:
Endurance, staying power, tolerance, lack of complaint, persistence, fortitude. Patience is the state of endurance under difficult circumstances, which can mean persevering in the face of delay or provocation without acting on annoyance/anger in a negative way; or exhibiting forbearance when under strain, especially when faced with longer-term difficulties. Patience is the level of endurance one’s character can take before negativity. It is also used to refer to the character trait of being steadfast. Or which you can wait for things.
Some quotes about Patience I found:-
“Patience is something you admire in the driver behind you and scorn in the one ahead.” ~Mac McCleary
“Patience is the ability to count down before you blast off.” ~Author Unknown
“Patience: A minor form of despair disguised as a virtue.” ~Ambrose Bierce
“You can learn many things from children. How much patience you have, for instance.” ~Franklin P. Jones
I have come to believe that Patience is not any of those things. There is a perception here that Patience requires effort, that it is hard work! That it is connected to time. And I believe it isn’t. Patience is effortless, easy, serene. Patience waits for no Man, it just is.
As a Kid I was always told BE PATIENT, along with some other sayings like, “All good things come to those who wait”. I was always dreaming of what was coming in the future, like Christmas, Birthday, the holidays etc. I had no concept that I was being Impatient, I just wanted the good things in life, the excitement as opposed to the mundane and ordinary, like doing my chores, going to school etc!
If I was lying around in the grass watching clouds and playing in the fields, I was told to do something constructive, to stop wasting time.
Wasting time was not encouraged in my house. “Empty hands make idle hands.” – Find something to DO! So as a Kid I did a lot of chores and dreamed about being rich. I read a lot of books, coz that was considered ok, you were not lazy when you read, coz anything to do with expanding your knowledge was acceptable.
Being told that you have to wait for what you perceive to be Happiness, gave me a belief that ‘happiness’ was always one step away. That in TIME I would have all the things I wanted. Reading about far off lands and things that other people did, gave me a belief that “happiness happens to other people, not me.” They didn’t have to wait, they were already living happiness.
Patience was never explained properly to me as a Child and I never really learned it as an Adult either, not for a long long time, it took Patience to Learn Patience J
Paul Sweeney Says ; “How can a society that exists on instant mashed potatoes, packaged cake mixes, frozen dinners, and instant cameras teach patience to its young?” ~ and if you take that even further to the convenience of mobile phones, instant messaging, GPS, Credit Cards, Internet, fast food, a whole generation is all about Instant Gratification, they don’t have to wait for much these days and still there is impatience!
I grew up impatient, and full of curiosity about what I didn’t have, didn’t know about and didn’t do! I didn’t know that it was masking the fear, that I would never be good enough, that those beliefs and concepts from childhood were actively sabotaging my finding happiness. Beliefs were born that I always had to work for it, Wait for it.
So as an adult, I learned some lessons about Patience, planting seeds, ideas and waiting for them to be born into the world, sometimes waiting patiently for Universal Timing, sometimes struggling against it with all my might. Sometimes white knuckling (holding on) so tightly to what I believed should be happening and growing more inpatient by the day, and not understanding myself and then in despair, letting go, which would finally allow it to manifest. I spent so much time being in my own way and believing I was being Patient!
It wasn’t until I went to India, that I began to really see Patience in Action. Really get an understanding of what Patience means. In India the TIME consciousness is different. They simply do not measure importance of things by Time. We have an example of this just a few short weeks ago with the Opening of the Commonwealth Games. The rest of the world was up in arms, impatient and angry at India for not having everything ready a month before the Commonwealth Games. There was outrage and India just told us to be Patient, it would be ready, it was ok. J
And it was ok, by Indian Standards anyway. India doesn’t seek to impress with materialistic illusions, India knows everything happens when its meant to.
In India, I was fascinated by the amount of Men who appeared to be sitting around, on the side of the road, chatting and literally doing nothing! India is a hive of activity and yet there is little going on. It’s the noisiest place and yet there is a peace so sublime. The traffic is crazy and yet everything flows. There is no Road Rage, and minimum traffic lights & rules, and the traffic just flows. Its like a symphony, a river, a natural flow. It is the physical manifestation of action from the Heart of Patience.
There is so much JOY in the faces of those who have nothing. They are not patiently waiting for another life, they accept and love the one they have. They are grateful.
In India you accept what is and love what is. We in the west are so in control of everything and so controlled by everything, believing that Time is of the utmost importance and that if we stick to a Time-Line that somehow we stay in control. That we are following the Rules. We also want it now! And yet know nothing about the Now!
We often enter conversations without listening to other people, our mind is already thinking ahead to “what’s for tea” or what’s next?
If we are stuck in traffic we get impatient, because we are gonna be late for work, and being late is triggering whatever beliefs we have about ourselves or what other people will think of us! it will mess up the day, we will be behind or upset someone else or whatever it is we are creating drama about. The truth is we are just having a pointless conversation with our minds, about what may or may not happen, and all that’s happening is that for the moment we are stuck in traffic. So instead of taking the opportunity to breathe and take notice of our surroundings. We get impatient. We often drive to work without seeing anything at all of our surroundings. We are totally Unconscious to the beauty that is everywhere. Do you know how many beautiful birds you can see at McDonalds? If you look at the cloud formations and the colours in the sky, and the trees, they are forever changing. There is a reminder in nature everywhere you look, of the seasons, the rhythm of life and the peace available to you.
In India, It was tough to let go of control in the first few days, I gave myself a headache trying to hold on to what was supposed to be, … my suitcase fell apart, it was taped up and I couldn’t get another one for 2 weeks. Nothing was on time, or worked properly…The power went out, the power went on, the shower water was hot, the shower was cold, I kept losing things and finding them again a few days later, everything was contrary to my beliefs and concepts, it was so wrong..…. and then just like that I couldn’t fight it anymore and I just surrendered and began to trust. Trust that everything was happening as it should, Trust that I had it right, Trust that there was nothing for me to do, Trust that all was well. Trust that my suitcase would turn up. I let go of my expectations, my judgement of myself and others, and India itself, and I lived in the moment, I found a peace so sublime, that it has stayed with me even to this day. I gave myself permission to DO Nothing, and in me DOING Nothing, everything got Done.
One day in the trip, I lost my Yoga Mat, they were a very special gift given to us by Brandon and Kevin and we used them everywhere we went. This day I had put my Yoga Mat down whilst we were in Satsang and then afterwards it was not in the place I had left it. When I couldn’t find it, I can remember thinking Oh I wonder where it could be, and then……. It will turn up! And if it doesn’t well that’s ok. When we got back to the hotel, I heard my name called from across the Lobby and there was a Trainer with my Yoga Mat.
In the past I would have stressed out so badly I would have been so impatient and so rude and angry to myself and others, demanding that someone Do something. I laugh at this picture of myself now, and yet in the past, when in impatience, I didn’t recognise what a tool I was being. I was so caught up in my own justifications, my importance, my need to get it right now.
Coming home to Oz, my life turned upside down! My income dropped significantly, my business partner and I separated our business and went our separate ways. My Family dynamics changed, I was a Grandmother, My relationships changed, I opened myself up to love a significant other, to be in business on my own, to put myself fully out there, like I never had before. I started a whole new path, that I had not trodden before. Patience became a doorway for me to become aware of my EGO patterns, my concepts, my fears.
“Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and love the questions themselves. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is to live everything. Live the questions” “Live your questions now, and then even without knowing it, you will live along some distant day into your answers.”
And so in conclusion I have discovered that the meaning for Patience to me is:-
Living in Present time, surrendering to what is, having no expectations, believing in myself and my purpose, letting go of timing and control, opening myself up to love and experiences, having awareness of my drama and catching myself out. In living Patience, it makes room for silence and in silence, I hear my soul, my spirit, my very essence calling me forth to be born into every second, every precious moment, every new discovery of myself. I become a drop in the ocean that is part of the whole that brings forth the spirit of a New Earth. I trust and follow a very different path, to the one of Impatience. Guided by grace and my spirit, my life unfolds perfectly.
“Life is not about waiting for the Storm to pass, its about Learning to Dance in the Rain.” And in that joy, expressing and creating miracles. That to me is Grace expressed as PATIENCE.













